If you are feeling depressed, lonely, and thinking about giving up. Then you have to wait and ask yourself why are you giving up? When you start asking questions then you will start getting solutions that why are you thinking of giving up.

Thinking about giving up

“Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail better.” —Samuel Beckett

This line is made of some words, like thinking and giving up. The first word is thinking means we are searching for something in our lives and we are continuously thinking about it. Our mind is not in our hands it will think whatever it likes. Our mind is a logical machine and it will answer the questions of whether it is wrong or right depending on our thinking. The second word is giving up it means we are suffering and want to escape from this suffering. We thought there is only one option is giving up, but this is not right we will discuss some points in this blog.

We heard about many legends like freedom fighters, scientists, teachers, families, etc. in our life. In their life they never thought about giving up, yes they had difficult situations and had hard times for them, and in those situations, anybody could easily give up. But they stay strong and gave us what we have today. What we have today is not earned by us; this is the loan on our shoulders.   

Of those legends, some are Mahatma Buddha, Swami Vivekananda, Mohan Das Karamchand Gandhi, Bhagat Singh, Dr. Bhimrao Ambedkar, and many more. They never had given up and today all we know that what our country had if these legends had given up.

Mahatma Buddha went to many gurus for the right knowledge, and he did exactly what they said. He got the right knowledge when he sat down and asked questions himself. He had never thought about giving up because he had wanted to get the right knowledge. Swami Vivekananda also did the same, he also wanted to get the right knowledge.

Mohan Das Karamchand Gandhi is known as “Bapu”. He played an important role in the freedom of the Republic of India. He had never given up and was always ready for helping others. Bhagat Singh we all know at the of 23 he had hanged, he never gave up in the difficult situations faced in the jails, where he and his partners were beaten brutally. They always thought about freedom and they fought for that.

Dr. Bhimrao Ambedkar known as the Father of the Constitution of India present. He was a leader, journalist, economist, and social worker who fought against the discrimination against the untouchables. He never gave up in his life and fight against many bad rituals in our society, it was his efforts that women get the vacation during the pregnancy, employees work in an office for 8 hours only.

why are you giving up?

This is an important question we have to ask ourselves because, when we ask then we get the answers. There must be a reason, keep asking yourself why you are giving up? Are we happy with the situation we have? Are we getting what we want like results? The love we want? The job we want and the admission we want, and posts of our choice?

These questions we have to continuously ask ourselves, are we getting what we want. We have to change our approach towards our goal, not to change our goal. We have to fight with the situations to get what is ours. Everything has a price are we able to pay the price?

We have to first think about what we want to do in our life? and what are my approaches till now? Where we are lacking, where we can improve or how can we improve. When we will start improving things, it will not happen in a day, but when we keep on improving. In the end, we will get what we want in our life. There is always scope for improvement.

Solutions when thinking about giving up

·    Call someone it could be your friend, girlfriend, brother, or family member, and talk to them with an open heart. They are our well-wishers they will listen and give you the necessary advice which is quite useful to you.

·    Watch or read about others’ perseverance when we think others are in more pain than others, then automatically our pain is reduced. Don’t know why but it happens. Read about others’ biographical troubles then we will not think about giving up.

·      When we start something, there is a motive. Now we are passed the difficult phase of the goal, and now time arrive to cut the crop and we are thinking about giving up. How could we do this thing to ourselves? We have to rethink why we start and after getting the facts we will start again.

·     Search for different ideas our previous ideas may not work. Keep on thinking we will get the pearls after diving in the sea. The same thing happens when we keep diving into the sea of thoughts and came up with a new idea. This idea may work and success will be ours soon.

·        Keep on saying to ourselves I will not quit. we started this and we will end this and learn as much as we can.

·      Use failure as a lesson there is no failure in our life. There are only lessons, we did a mistake and the results are different we analyze the situation and found our mistakes. We rectified those mistakes and the results will be ok. No need to worry too much about failure, these are the lessons.

·      Be positive when we think or see the positive side of the situation then we will see the possibilities. We keep on working and made certain changes and change the results according to them.

·      Have patience when we keep patience, we are hoping for the best time yet to come.

·      Stay away from negative people these people don’t learn from you but they teach you something, which is not good for us. They say something like I don’t think this can be done and give some suggestions. You pick up suggestions and now you start thinking it can’t be done.

Note: Giving up is an option. You can’t use it again and again. In life, we never know what is coming tomorrow. If something wrong happens tomorrow are we giving up again? We have only one life, with limited time on this planet. We can’t live like a loser. We are winners we can’t give up. We are winners, we are winners.